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Life Structuring

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Intimacy

Customized guidance that sets a high value on personal bonds, confidential communication, and understanding.

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Exclusivity

Relationships are selected and sculpted to cultivate a singular devotion.

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Discipline

A firm hand on reins of the most mulish clients, strict limitations and exacting demands can be valuable for breaking obstinate habits.

Styles of Guidance

Decades of experience and specialty skills allows M. Lu the ability to create bespoke training and consulting paths for selected clients.

Goal Affirming

Embracing a vulnerable and unbound connection; the affectionate, comforting approach uses positive reinforcement and acknowledgement to encourage acquiescence. Compliant clients will be able to target their failings and will be quickly molded into their ideal self.  

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High Discipline

Targeted for clients with low self-mastery and weak willpower, this intensive emphasis on control and restraint uses psychological and imaginative techniques to command prompt obedience.

Intellectual Growth

A rare specialty, ideal for uniquely intelligent or exceptionally talented clients regularly finding themselves not living up to their potential and for whom traditional confidence boosting therapy is ineffective. Intellectual development uses performance training to challenge deep-seated anxiety and claim your inner most confidence.

  

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“M. Lu has provided a platform which challenges me to lead a better and altogether healthier lifestyle. Her methods leave you feeling fulfilled and happier as a result. Would highly recommend!”

Mr. D

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“With her no nonsense approach, [M. Lu] sets high standards and expects a lot in terms of engagement but her techniques have consistently yielded results that speak for themselves. Have thoroughly enjoyed the process.”

Mr. W

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“M. Lu offers an extraordinary service that transcends traditional self-improvement methods. Her intellectual growth program is an invigorating challenge that masterfully blends mental acuity with deep emotional exploration. For those like me who struggle with their position on the Dunning-Kruger graph, her guidance is transformative, unlocking my untapped potential and relieving me of my persistent self-doubt.”

Mr. R

About

I have spent 25 years creating personal, elegant life structuring solutions for companions who crave guidance, understanding, and confidentiality. The human mind is complex and fascinating; each of us vibrant and unique. I love devising new and inventive ways to challenge you physically and mentally, incorporating deliberate consequences and rewards. I bring joy, humor, and affection to my work and love knowing that what I’m doing brings the same joy to those I work with. I thrive at balancing the roles of multiple authority figures in your life — teacher, goddess, or even bully — to sculpt you into the person you are begging to become. 

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We take care to maintain the highest level of confidentiality.